Hey Xue

I actually posted an update on my thread

got to say this whole masculine feminine conversation is interesting

what is masculine? what does it mean to be masculine?
what does it mean to you? what does it mean to mean?
the same with feminine

maybe we need to define the concepts is everyone on the same page


does feminine mean wearing makeup and a dress
(hey I know some males that do that)

does masculine mean getting dirty fixing your car
or talking car mechanics?

hey I do that at the Jeep club meetings guys ask me tech questions about my modified Jeep and I can answer them - knowledgeably even - does that make me masculine???

does your wife have an unrealistic idea of feminine (I think she used to) but I think she is redefinig that idea

is the idea that a female not having children becoming cranky ole mean spirited women a hang up from the old childless spinister victorian days??
I have two friends in their forties - married who decided not to have children for different reasons who are still happy they decided not to have children - is the definition of a worthy female someone who puts her womb to use??

should males not go forth and populate the world

interesting topic ya got going on your web site

and your wife is right kids are full of kooties
my D16 has been sick for two days and she gave the kooties to me which meant I had to take four days off work instead of two
two for her and two for me
at least my dogs don't pass on thier kooties

so did you notice I changed your thread title
the other one wasn't positive enough for me
and you put it out there that you needed to be in SSM

I think you need to put it out there that things are changing

so whats new
what ideas are floating around in your head these days
what things are you trying

back to basics Xue - not too much thinking
back to looking at what works - watch body language and make little changes as required

you are looking a bit stagnant to me
like all is ok the way it is (however I know it isn't)

will check back on you

bj ;\)


my thread