It is done...my divorce was final today, 20 Jul 07.

When the judge granted my divorce, she wished me luck and said to go have a margarita :).

Anyhoo...I'm doing good. I got divorced today knowing that at least, I gave it a shot, and I can live with that.

Let me tell you that this BB has been a great support system for me. Thank you for all your support.

Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb)
H - 43
married - 16 Jul 94
no children
1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06
2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06
H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06
Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07