How stupid have i been for not doing this all along, not treating my wife like the piece of fine china that she is, and acting like the world revolves around me. All the pain i was in is no excuse, just a lame reason i used to rationalize my ranting and raving.
I can totally relate to this statement. It's so hard not to keep kicking myself about what a selfish, childish imbecile I was. At least we have recognized it and are doing our best to change.