I have never talked directly to om I left him a message on his cell early on cause he didnt answer and about a month ago i emailed him telling him about the family he was coming between.

My wife said he was mad I contacted him and he said not to do it again. I said I dont give a f**k what he says. I will call him if I want to.

I havnt called him since and have the same delema as you just stated.