Question.

If My W does not respect me. Thinks I am a wimp, fool, stupid, ECT...

And she tell me not to contact the OM. and I don't

And I know discussing the OM is NOT DBing

BUT…………..How can I gain respect, not be a wimp, fool, stupid. ?


And don't give me that turn the other cheek stuff. If someone attacked your family would you not want to "talk" to that person? Or would you "turn the other cheek"

Just thinking out loud
Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know