Reconciling with ex-husband

[alamogirl]

shiloh, I have to agree with keepingit. First of all, I don't think your houseguest wrecked anything. You all were obviously having problems...she just brought the problems to light.

Second, if you are serious about making a go of your marriage with your ex, you need to get rid of the bf. Even though you say that he's more like a roommate, you're still calling him bf, and he's obviously still acting like one (throwing fits because you're spending time with the ex).

Personally, I think you need time for you. Get rid of the bf, and take time out for yourself. You may find that you don't want your ex.