Yeah, that's funny. I do not wonder what her reaction will be. She will be absolutely incredulous. "Where are you going? No, wait, WHERE ARE YOU GOING????.... well, when will you be back???"
etc...

Just after dinner, I will jump in the shower, get dressed, and head out, without stopping. I will say, see you later! grab the keys, and head out.

Also... as you know I am going to a church FESTIVAL... and the only praying I will be doing is to fill my inside straight...

I may indeed make this a routine... about twice a month as you do...And I DO think it is DBing. It's GAL ... showing them what life will be like in the future that THEY want (wondering where we are and what we are doing). It's NOT revenge. It's not: "See, now you know how it feels!!" Not at all. It's all about "Be careful what you ask for because you just might get it!"

Mark