hi MariS,

I have been moving around with work, kids, husband, and myself. Which is awesome if you ask me. I would rather be this busy than sitting around thinking about what has happened in the last year.


I hope you tried what I recommended..........writing down positive things when you feel sad and lonely. I got this from Joel Osteen's book. He is such an inspirational speaker. I didn't get to sit in one of his sermons when I lived in Houston, but I watched his show constantly. He inspired me so much that I bought his book.


I sure hope you get on with YOUR life. Your H will come around if he's supposed to be in your path. I can only say that mine didn't come around completely until one year after he left. He's not home completely but he's here most of the time. He says he wants to work things out and that he misses the kids alot. All I told him was that I've waited this long, I think I can wait a few more months for our marriage to heal 100%.

Praying for you and your family. Take care.


me = 34
H = 35
kids = 3
worst day of my life: march 24, 2006
he filed: april 20
Present day: Wedding ring on, he's looking forward to another baby, taking day by day, we talk about our feelings whenever possible.