Yes CM, he gave her money - after all she is an escort, that's what they do and he gave her A LOT of money over a relatively short period of time (I am guessing somewhere in the neighbourhood of $5-8,000) so, ya, I guess she is a little stressed at this point as her meal ticket is running out very fast
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
I hope you didn't take my post the wrong way. I'm just very glad for you and H that that "chapter" is over & done w/.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
Of course I didn't take it the wrong way. I am well aware of what my H did (twice, I might add) but we are (hopefully) past that
The biggest issue I had with the money is we have talked and talked about taking a trip to Alaska and we could have gone there and back several times on what he gave to OW and also on gambling - don't get me going on that one. I work VERY hard for my money and it bugs the crap out of me that half of what he gave her came from ME !!! (more than half if I want to get technical because I make more than he does)
Onto another (happier) chapter hopefully
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
HWsomewhere in the neighbourhood of $5-8,000) so…… and also on gambling….. …..and it bugs the crap out of me that half of what he gave her came from ME !!! (more than half if I want to get technical because I make more than he does) I don’t understand why aren’t furious with those behaviors? Of course BB had a $5K to $10K shopping addiction for several years, so maybe I did something similar to what you have done.
I did tell BB she or was moving out if the shopping addiction and daily UPS/FedEx/USPS deliveries didn’t stop.
Onto another (happier) chapter hopefully I certainally hope so.
What is the escorts phone number? I will call her to tell her buzz off!
I didn't mean to bring it up again. I was just kind of responding to Hairdog in understanding why she may not be getting the picture as to quit calling.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
I guess I havent with some of BB spending. Now we are giving away the items she bought or getting $0.05 on the dolllar at garage sales.
Gambeling?? I see the print outs (plays, money in, money paid out)from some Keno machines. Legal thivery describes it in my opinion. Even if the machine pays out 85% per play, they get to keep 90% of the players money because most players play and play till they spent their wad.
I certainly understood why you brought that up I too think that's why she keeps trying to contact him...he spent a big chunk of change on her and she's bound to be missing/needing that income. This particular escort knows what an easy mark Heywyre's H has been in the past, so it's easier for her to try to get him back...than find a new mark.
It is definitely much easier to pin him than another mark GEL - simply because (1) she has had her talons into him for quite a while now (2) he backs down every time (3) he has constantly given her money over the past year (4) she knows he is a real sucker when it comes to kids and she plays that card VERY well (5) should I continue? I am sure you get the picture by now
She "apparently" teaches music (and one of her "pics" on her website shows her sitting (naked) behind a very large cello) and told H that she was just doing "this" to supplement her income and only had 2-3 "regular guys" - H being one of them, so she says. Well, if she was doing quite well at the music end of things (which she says she was) then all she would have needed was one regular guy - my H!! to keep her "supplemented" for sure. I can guarantee he was paying at least her rent every month, if nothing more. If I could find someone to pay my rent, I could be living pretty high on the hog I tell ya!! Couldn't you?
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
I too think that's why she keeps trying to contact him...he spent a big chunk of change on her and she's bound to be missing/needing that income. This particular escort knows what an easy mark Heywyre's H has been in the past, so it's easier for her to try to get him back...than find a new mark.