Frikkin' excellent post Sven!

I'm in the process you mentioned right now. I've spent the last 24 hours thinking, praying and looking hard at me.

What do I want? What are my NUTS? What would it take for me to be happy without anyone else? What would it take for me to be whole?

I'm getting there, closer to a list, it started as a legal pad of scribbling, now down to around 8 pages of more legible scribbling.

I want to have the master list by Monday.

You're an inspiration Sven, I'm going to be like you, frank_d, tampaguys, and TL's lovechild when I grow up.