A sure fire way to kill your marriage, is to avoid doing things because your husband "might" react a certain way. Becuase you can always think up some reaction from him that would be negative.. so you can provide yourself with an excuse not to do ANYTHING, if you allow yourself to keep thinking that way.
Excellent point, Dom! I need to place that one in my DB records.
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If he loves you, and wants to work on your marriage.. he WANTS to do things for you. Telling him what he can do for you, and giving him a chance to do it, will make him very happy.
Again, great stuff, Dom! H is likely feeling pretty helpless and powerless right now. If you give him something to work with, both of you will be less likely to be walking around on eggshells. I'm sure the idea of discussing these things with H is tough, but it might lessen the tension that I'm guessing permeates the air in the house. What are your feelings about this?
And, again sandi, I'm sorry about my posts to BK on your thread. I should just be big enough to walk away and ignore him like everyone else. I'd just had enough and needed to get it off my chest. I promise I'll ignore him and turn the other cheek from here on out and let your thread exist in peace. Once again, my sincerest apologies!
