Thank you gentleman for your insight. I often need to see thigns from my H's side to get a better perspective.

I am going to keep up with the MC (however painful) because I never want to look back and wonder "what if". Thank you for reminding me of this.

I will always love my H. But getting over the hurts, anger, and betrayal is difficult. I am def not in love with him anymore but I hope that someday I can be again.

Okay gents. I am off for the weekend. Maybe I can figure out how to post from home but if not I will post after the weekend. Hope everyone does some really great GAL things and enjoys themselves \:\)


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.