I dont know if my marriage will work out, but I do want to take the steps to improve myself, not be so dependent on him. And if that makes me a happier person, then I will be better off and maybe it will bring us back together and maybe not, but I do know that I need to find the strength in myself to fight for my life!
Why did your husband file when YOU left? Did it just piss him off so badly when you left that he saw red and filed?
it is a shame that divorce has to be the catalyst for some of us to get off our asses and do some self-improvement, but at least looking at it as positively as possible will make it a tiny bit more bearable.
Good luck SMM, I wish you all the best!!!
We can talk ourselves into defeat or we can talk ourselves into victory - we are creatures of our thinking.
3/31/07 - Hit with a brick, leaving the dent there...
