I said in my last post that husband was going to Majorca for a long weekend when it is his birthday at the begining of August. When he told me on Wed night, he made it sound like he was going on his own and meeting up with someone there who owns a bed and breakfast place. I know i shouldn't have, but i asked my husband why OW wasn't going, it turns out that OW is going for a week with friends and my husband is meeting them there. For the last few months i have always told myself not to ask husband questions with regard to OW because i probably would not like the answer, and that very thing was true today.
At first i was upset at the thought of husband going to such a lovely place with her, a place where husband and i have been on holiday a couple of times but i have once again soon got over it. I really am at the point where i do not want to get caught up in all the drama. Unfortunatley D3 won't be seeing her Daddy on his birthday to give him his present, so she will have to do it another time. Despite all this i still hope that my husband has a good time, he does deserve the break.
My husband mentioned that his S13 phoned to see if he could come and stay with his dad now the summer holidays are here, he does not see his Dad much. My husband was telling me that it was awkward because he can't just majic money from thin air for the petrol money to go and pick him up but yet as i see it, he is able to afford to go to Majorca with OW. My husband still does not get it, he is still so wrapped up in his own world without regard for how it effetcs people close to him, people that truley do love him.
I have got a friend coming round tonight for a few drinks so i will catch up later .
Hope everyone is ok.
Nicky
Me 34 H 33 D3 together 10 years married 2 years Bomb 22/8/06 (I feel empty) OW involved
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