I then asked 'Do you think you might be throwing away something really good?' - 'Do you ever feel like you are making a mistake?' - she said 'Every day, but its a mistake i feel like i need to make. We need to at least be seperated right now'.
You know what I'm about to say. Conversations like this go nowhere. You can't persuade her to think. Nothing you SAY will persuade her. It's the life you live that will cause her to think.
Hang tough. Do not move out of your house. Kids should stay with you.
There's someone on this board MCOJH, who, once his wife left, had her start to chase him slowly.