Thanks Dom. My hope is that once he moves out (and I get past the initial grief) I will be able to get some much needed perspective and grounding. Right now I feel as if I am twisting in the wind.
I grew up in an alcoholic household where it was fairly volatile-so I needed to become very skilled in reading moods, etc. Unfortunately, that means I am very sensitive to his moods and I can't not read them.
For those that still live with their spouse and are detached-I commend you.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing