So, you've been together since he was 24...he's about to turn 40.
Go to the Midlife Crisis board and read the resources at the top.
Also, have you read the Walkaway Wife Syndrome? It applies to either spouse.
If he's MLC, I am very sorry. You are in for the worst 2-5 years of your life if you want to save it.
If he's WAH, I am also very sorry. Your marriage is over.
So, basically, sorry to see you here but we'll be here to support you either way.
that's not necessarilly true. It is SUPER hard, but not impossible. The wall that needs to come down is super thick and super tall, so get ready for work. Good Luck!!! Here's the article: