We are seperated and he filed last week

[sadhearted]

I understand feeling like if you could just talk to him, if you could just get thru to him. But really doesn't do any good. They don't want to hear what you have to say. I know how hard it is to back off. My H left just over 2 months ago. At first I did the talks, crying, saying I love you. It just wasn't working. I backed off and he started approaching me. Now he's backed off so we aren't really talking to one another outside of the kids. It's hardest thing in the world for me to not have some kind of contact but with time it gets easier. I still want to talk to him but I don't have the urge to start a conversation when I see him online. I'm working on me now. I'm doing things I enjoy doing. Along with taking care of my kids. I still have my down times and I still cry but I'm better then I was when it first happened.

In dealing with this you have to have patience and lots of it. They say time is on our side.

One thing you should keep in mind believe none of what he says and only half of what you see.