Well, to answer your question, my inlaws (his parents) clearly withdrew from me and both said some things that hurt my feelings. I'm doing my best to keep the relationships up but it was clear from the begining that if the marriage was over, any further communication from me would be inappropriate.
And sadly, the kids follow the lead of his parents.
However, his step-mother has stayed true to me and continued to be a wonderful friend.
Phoenix, I love "My Fair Lady". I'd love to become as dignified as Audrey Hepburn!