I just don't understand why if things didn't work out, you believe you'd have to give up the in-laws. We learned a long time ago it doesn't have to be that way. There are people we just ain't gonna let go of and they aren't gonna let go of us - regardless. Sure there would have to be some alterations in the "afterlife" but nothing that isn't reasonable and good manners.
Anyway, it's nothing to dwell on anyway. Why cross the bridge that's 4 miles down the river?
PNT - I always want to call you Eliza (Doolittle) - you just transform so vibrantly. Still some hang ups (like who doesn't have those) but a clear understanding. You've had more flashbulbs go off over your head than JLO in that green sheath.
Have you ever read any of Bridget's threads? I really think you may get something from her. She's incredible.