It is sad, but I think Cades is right...it happens too much. My H and I had been trying to get pregnant 3 years when he started his A. We had a failed IVF procedure one month before the A, and I actually went to a financial consult for our second IVF during the week H was out of town and met OW. I think my H didn't deal with life's challenges and turned to an A to ease the pain....looks like he caused more.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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