We are seperated and he filed last week

[sadhearted]

I'm sorry you find yourself here. There is a lot of people here though that will help and support you. Know that you are not alone.

I don't have a success yet. I can tell you to not beg, plead, pursue or talk about your R. Easier said then done I know. We all do that when our spouses first leave. But all that does is push them farther away. Leave him alone. Let him have time to think, feel and maybe even miss you. Read DR follow the steps. If nothing else it will help you be a better person and no matter what the outcome of your sitch you'll be okay with you.