I don't think he cares what she sees at this point. I think he is getting tired of how much time she is spending every day, looking at this stuff.
MF, you have only been on here for 3 weeks. I know it is frustrating to have her keep questioning you in this way. But remember you have been lying to her about this crap since before you were married. You have to expect that the trust will be very slow in coming, several months at least.
You need to focus on positives rather than negatives. Find stuff to do with your wife that is FUN! Take her out somewhere. Go for a bike ride. Take her SHOPPING if that's what it takes. Don't just mope around the house waiting for her to forgive you. Win her back!
Does she literally refuse to go to a movie with you, preferring to sit at the computer and check to make sure you aren't connecting with anyone? If so, pull up a chair. Help her find whatever it is she is looking for. Tell her, "I want to spend time with you, so if this is the only thing you want to do, let's do this together."
