Quote: One of the reasons I've been trying so hard to save my marriage is because my husband's family is my family too.
I know EXACTLY what you mean. My W's folks are great...have almost been more like a mother and father to me than my own folks. I'd miss them very much.
Quote: I guess all any of us can do is to learn from our mistakes and to focus on improving our relationships with the people who touch our lives.
Yup. I expect that over time your brother will notice your changes and relax a bit; however, it sounds like he has his own demons to deal with...as we all do.
