I am here seeking help, we seperated 2 weeks ago, I left the state to go stay with my family. He filed for D last Friday. It is the hardest thing I have ever gone through. I dont know what to do. I am trying to give him space, but I feel I need to talk to him. I feel if he would just give us a chance, he would see that we can be a family again. I started to read DR. I know if I give him some space, stop talking and show him that I can change, that he may change his mind. Does anyone have any advice for me? I dont know where to turn, he was always there for me and now that is gone. It seems to soon to me, like he jumped the gun and now wont turn back. I cant seem to get angry at him, I know in my heart that I have to fight for my marriage. One of us has to and I already stand to lose him, so what else do I have to lose? Has anyone had any success when one spouse has no intentions of working on the relationship?
