It is finally out, he wants a D

[sadhearted]

My H feels like a failure too. I think alot of their problem is within them and not us. Sure we have done things or failed them in some way but that's not WHAT their problem is. Who knows if they'll figure that out or not. So I think we may be a small part of it but not the big issue. And certainly not as big as what they want to think or make us out to be.