Thanks y'all. During MC H got defensive...didn't like hearing my perceptions, didn't like MC asking him questions like, "If you could choose answering emails or cuddling with your wife, which would you choose?" I kept it in I-Messages, but now H is having to do what I did with myself last summer. Or...he won't. His choice. I will say that things were very different last night...lots of touching, ML, etc. It's just that everything else in his life was a priority.....

As always, I'm surprised at the depth of emotion I still have in me about all of this.

I've got a very busy weekend planned...going to a pool party today, marching in a parade with my school tomorrow, finding somewhere to hike on Sunday. Busy is good.

SD


Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!