I'll have to look at your thread. I love finding people who are going through similar stuff and then reading the entire thread to look for 'sign posts!'
My husband lives an hour away. He's living with 2 of his friends. They are pregnant, well the wife is. The husband is younger than my husband, and I think he contributed a little to my husband wanting to be single again. In any case, they got pregnant and then got married. She is due in about 2 months.
If my husband stays there, he'll have a screaming newborn to deal with. That'll give him a reason to move out, right?
