Well, I guess I know what my homework for the next couple weeks is going to be. DETACHMENT. I have been doing a pretty good job of giving her space, but haven't really detached from her. It is going to be the hardest thing that I have ever done. I have been driving myself crazy always thinking about my situation. It just seems like without her by my side, I don't have any plans for the future. Everything that I have done the past 10 years has been for her and to build our future together.
From all of you more experienced DB'ers out there, what steps did you use to begin the process of detaching from your spouses? I would imagine that the first steps taken are the hardest, so I would like some advice on initial actions to start to begin the detaching process.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07
