Actually,

Jethro that makes a lot of sense. I guess I was thinking in terms of black and white. Heh...not the first time I've been accused of that!

The trick I guess is to keep the good things and improve the bad. And I need to decide what is good, not look to my husband to decide that.

Because the bottom line is, at the end of the day, whether he goes or stays, I'm the one who has to live with me.



Thanks Jethro.

Hugs.

PIB