R talk - I need opinions.

[Grace_O]

Imageer,

Glad to hear you have a plan that will work for you. Let us know how it pans out.

[peacetoday]

Imageer
The extra time together might be good db practice.. and maybe this can help for the future
Good luck
r

[oldtimer]

"This will give me some talk time with W and the possibility of "do you and the kids want to go to dinner" So it might suck time wise, but I see it as a good thing for the sitch."

This will be transparent to her. It will be pushing/pursuing/crowding. She can ask you for help if she wants help. Leave the ball in her court. Right now, leave the ball in her court every time.