What I have been doing is asking her if she wants to talk about it, she always says no, and then I say that I am always available to talk if she wants. I don't know of any other way to handle the situation.
Stew,
I won't repeat everyone else's advice, it's spot on. Get out and do something for yourself. Regarding the quote above, this seems to me like pushing and reminded me of Michelle's thoughts on not saying ILY. The WAS knows how you feel. Saying ILY remeinds them that they don't feel that way about you. Similarly, asking her to talk everyday is probably viewed as pressure by her. Don't do it. She's got to know you're there for her if she wants to talk to you.
The art of detachment is letting her go without letting her go, if you know what I mean. Let her go. You're driving yourself nuts.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
