Thanks for the support Rob. Just like Michelle advises in DR, I believe none of what I hear and half of what I see. I will continue my LRT, with emphasis on GAL activities. I will be busy this weekend...

Today she asked me if I intend to keep the house (live here by myself after the D). I told her, "I haven't given it much thought. I would like to stay here. I need to think about it." She didn't really respond. The answer kind of thew her off. My coach advises that these types of answers be given when D talk comes up. Responses like, "Wow, that's an interesting concept. You have given me something to think about," are appropriate answers to D & R questions.


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9