UB, my H does not want the responsibilities of a family either. That is exactly what our C told me. He is making up all this junk about "we were too young and escaping our families" and "we have grown apart" blah, blah, blah, to make himself feel better.

My H said he would work at it for two years and then quit after two weeks. They are incredibly immature and want to blame the marriage when it is really them. They are lazy and self centered and want their freedom. We deserve better. All marriages take work. When the going gets tough, the weak start running.


Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years
MLC Divorced 10/3/07
Married to a wonderful new man.