It is finally out, he wants a D

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My H last night started saying things that he did wrong in his life--but said he wasn't including me in that list. Also said he was moving out no matter what at some point, some how. When he mentioned that he would be in his rental house by now I said I knew a place where there was love that he could live. I just don't understand it. He is obviously screwed up in more ways than just me. Regrets things, has no interested in his music anymore, thinks he is old and life is basically done, etc. Really depressing stuff. I told him he did very well with what he has, kids and family I meant. He still thinks he is a big failure. So how much of this is actually me? Makes me wonder......