Frustrated and Saddened #2

[stewart10]

Thanks to all who responded. I know that I need to try and let her do her own thing. If she had said that she was not coming home last night and that she would be staying out, I would not have had the reaction that I did. She said that she would be home, so it made me worry because the areas that she goes to these bars are not safe areas. I worry about her safety. So, when she tells me she is going for a couple of drinks and would be "home in a bit" and then I don't hear from her until 4:10 am I tend to get a bit worried about her safety. She does not tend to have the best judgment when she is drinking.

When it got to be after 4:00 am (bars close at 4:00 am in NY) I did call her. I just was so worried. She did not answer me but texted me few minutes later saying that she was getting gas and would be home in a bit. She came in at 5:00 am. She did not mention that the call bothered her and I told her that I was just worried about her because she had said that she was really tired yesterday during the day and it is about a 30 minute commute for her, and she tells me all the time that she falls asleep while driving home.

Still no mention of any plans for this weekend. I suspect that she already has plans that don't include me. But nothing I can do about that. Just have to do something that makes me happy this weekend if she is not going to be around. I have a college buddy that lives in Boston but is going to Albany for a bachelor party this weekend. Maybe I will shoot up there if she is not going to be around.