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I have learned to give the W plenty of room when she gets home. Never know what mood she is in.
Since I have been dbing though she comes home in a beter mood.
2 months ago after she was home for a while I would ask her "how did your day go?"
She would look at me like I was a idiot and say "OK"

Now she tells me about this happening or that happening.
she has started to opened up.

Husband

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know