I know H seems to be missing the "family home life" even though OW onhis turn w/ the girls seems to be trying really hard to fill my wifely duties. When H was home we would never all sit together at hte table, for one there isn't enough tables for five,but H did like to eat infron of the tv. At Ow house they all sit (big table) together and one of the girls usually does the grace hypocrites,OW? He is doing all the outings we stopped doing as a family along time ago, ex- zoo,movies,resturants. So he has built a lot of goood new "family" memories w/ OW.
In the past week H has complimented be more and more on my cooking. He knows I don't offer for him to eat w/ ius anymore,but lately he will taste some and make a good comment"your cooking is gettign better or can you beleive I've missed your cooking! The night before last on his ususal day to visit I think he was waiting for me to say he can sit down and make himself a plate after he tasted. He replied well I am not that hungry I had a big lunch that is still in the middle of my throat. He still served himself a plate and saw that D10 had finished and told her to move, he actually sat w/ all of us to eat and talk about his day.He was really in a good mood that day, he even told D10 to take her of mommy & she said why? B/c your the oldest now here an dits your job to. He leaned over and gave me a big kiss on the cheek (had been a while since that).
I still say things are peachy rosey over at OW b/c she does not have her daughter fulltime during the summer (which H had complained about her before). So things should return back to normal after shcool starts &OW gets her daughter back.
She must make good $ also (big factor for H, less $ to worry about).OW offered to help him in the house payments!! She is beign so goooood to him. How can he not be in love w/ her? It's been too long to still be in the infatuation phase, he said he's past that. So what gives?? I asked if he was going to take OW up on her offer to help w/ the house payments & he said no that is not her promblem it is btw you & me.
