Need advice, please

[Rob1231]

But she has committed herself to end our marriage.

I know she says that Mark, and that she is acting that way too - but it ain't over until the fat lady sings. Remember, they HAVE to tell us they are committed to ending the marriage - it's part of their defense mechanism. You need to treat that statement the same as the rest of the alien spew being directed your way - let it slide off your back and keep hanging in there.