we WOULD NOT BE FRIENDS - I could not, it would hurt too much....
I told my H the exact same thing. It bothered him, but his response was "I understand, I wouldn't want to be friends with someone like me either". I guess the first step is admitting...it's too bad he can't get to the next step of actually changing. We don't have kids, so I plan on having no contact with by STBXH. I will be friendly if we see each other out, but that's it. It's too bad...he's losing a great W and a good friend. I can't say the same.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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