Stew you really have to let this go, you are going to drive yourself mad! She is going to do what she wants, and you can't do anything about it! I know it hurts and its hard as hell, but you aren't doing yourself any good! Get on with your own life, you have to! Why don't you try not being there when she is, you be late some nights and don't let her know. You have to do something because eventually this is going to catch up with you, and its going to impact all the great work that you have done so far!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
