I make more money than her but what she does means more, She does daycare at our house. She has been home for all our kids. She is done after this summer. Our youngest is in shcool now. I too feel like I'm paying for her affair. And it is OUR money.
The phone plan I chose has 3000 min, last month our tot was 3400. Last night I asked her If she could watch her mins so I don't have to keep upping our plan at the end of the month. Last month I guess she used over 3000 herself the rest was the girls and I. That really sucks when you think about it thats the cell phone not including home phone witch om calls while i'm at work.