You CAN"T makes her stop seeing the OM. SHE needs to decide this. If you really want to be married to her ya got to give it MORE TIME. Start doing thing for your self by your self. It’s called Get a Life. Show her you do not NEED her. Your really don't. But like would prefer to be with her. Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
