Hey Mark, Nice going on the "the reaction". It does make them wonder. I have been "going out" about every other Friday night. My W does not ask where I am going I just say "I'm going out". Now this is after I have spent a few hours out in the garage polishing up my wheel with my music blasting. I usually just stay out until midnight but....... We have a camper that can't be seen from the house. I have come home and seen OUR bedroom light still on. If it was I would sleep in the camper and then not come in the house until about 8:00am. (She thinks I am just getting home.) If you can get into the right frame of mind it is kind of fun. I am going out tonight. I just have been going down town. (Petaluma Calif. is a party town. People come up from San Fran. To party here.) I was thinking about getting one of the girls here at work to write "YOUR NAME" on my shoulder today. Its idea I got from Andy. Great way to start conversations. You met someone, ask them there name and say "Wow I have "YOUR NAME" tattooed on my shoulder. And bet them a drink you do. LOL I to try to second guess my W motives. Is she feeling guilty? Is she gaining respect for me? I don’t know. But what I do know is before I started DBing. My wife thought she knew me like a book. Now she realizes she really does not. Trouble is I really don't know her anymore either. The other thing about going out. When and if she asks where ya went: Just answer:”just out” Who with? “No body you would know” What did you do? “Just stuff”
This will work even if you just went down to the local hardware store.
Keeps em guessing
Husband.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
