Did your w seem the same or different after she returned?
LS: Thanks for the support. I am silently following your sitch as well. It ain't easy being us...
I would say she was maybe a bit warmer toward me, I guess. A shade more talkative. I interpret this as a sigh of relief that she did not get the reaction from me she expected upon her return (either all of her sh*t is on the front lawn <I considered doing this btw> or passive-aggressive <the old me>). However, I do not want to read into anything, though, even something as insignificant as this. So I guess the answer is she was the same, as I suspected she would be.
I need to add that she has another trip scheduled for August. This is a true business trip (the trip earlier in the week was one that we paid for). Anyway, August the trip extends to Saturday. So when I questioned the fact she is returning on Saturday night, she offered to show me the email from her boss that had the meeting dates on it. I think it is interesting that, immediately after she returns from a "love trip" with OM, she feels compelled to offer me this proof. Could it be guilt? Not sure, but it does not change the fact that she is charging full speed ahead with D, and will share a room with OM next month.
I am considering going out Friday night. Just grab the keys to her car (it's nicer than mine), and tell her I am going out and I will be back later. When she asks where are you going (and she will ask), I will just say "I'm just going out. I will be home later." Because I will be in her car, she will no doubt suspect that I will be with somebody (a date). Anybody have experience with this?
