H coming today, what do I do when he asks how I am

[MaxP]

Morgan,

I don't know what is wrong. They clearly think nothing is wrong or convince themselves that there are excuses for their behaviour. Perhaps they just have different values and if the going gets tough they just carry on walking.

I too expected some level of loyalty and commitment when we got married (after all she asked me), but that seems to have disappeared very quickly. I also think that I am no longer being allowed to know the full picture. Wasn't I at least her best friend too? It felt like it.

My W doesn't really think about us any more, I don't understand that. Is it denial or did she just close down a long time ago when I was not aware? Perhaps the bond for her was never that strong. But still, after 10 years together surely there must be something in there? Can she really feel nothing? Perhaps it is too early for her and she can only concentrate on herself, as a means of coping. She seems so detached though.

Sorry, a bit of a rant there, had a sleepless night. No thanks required on the support front, but it is appreciated.

Max