Okay, CVA -- Now I'm going to hold this statement over your head . You must give W that space, brotha! Give her time to consider you, how you're doing, what you're up to, etc, and avoid shoving it at her. When we continue to push in this way, I see it as trying to force feed a child who is already stuffed. If you keep it up, they'll never get hungry again, may hate the food, and even vomit it back onto you (great analogy, huh?).
Great idea to do individual things with each of your kids next week. That should remind them how much you love each and every one of them. Cute story about your Father/Daughter Church night and the fact that D still has the card out on her bookshelf! Yep, she still loves you tons and obviously valued that one-on-one time with you...
Take care and stay focused on what you're supposed to be doing, no matter how hard it is!
. You must give W that space, brotha! Give her time to consider you, how you're doing, what you're up to, etc, and avoid shoving it at her. When we continue to push in this way, I see it as trying to force feed a child who is already stuffed. If you keep it up, they'll never get hungry again, may hate the food, and even vomit it back onto you (great analogy, huh?). 
