I guess i am still longing for something to come from her but my stupidity about the sitch gets in the way. Won't happen again.
We all make this error, even when we're determined not to do it again. It looks like your W responds much better when you don't however.
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most of her non-response is not deliberate, just that she dealing with kids
In many of your posts I catch myself thinking your W sounds overwhelmed w/children duties. I know for myself, it was much easier to work outside the home than parent children, no matter how much love you have for them. When you say she "actually has to work to ask about others", I'm thinking, well...yeah, she's taking care of & doing for others all the time. She seems a little burned out in any case.
It's my guess that acknowledging that would go a long way. At least it would for me.
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How stupid have i been for not doing this all along, not treating my wife like the piece of fine china that she is, and acting like the world revolves around me. All the pain i was in is no excuse, just a lame reason i used to rationalize my ranting and raving. Well, working on all that now!
Wow, this is great CVA!! I have to say though, being in pain w/your neck injury/fusion is a tough one. It's difficult for everyone to be level & balanced when you're suffering.
Your kids sound great, enjoy your time w/them next wkend.
