Sox, Flipped through your sitch for the first time, looks to me like you've been extremely patient with your H. Not to be too crude, but it seems like he needs to $hit or get off the pot.
I would be furious if someone told me who died in the last Harry Potter book. That's just plain stupid.
I'm not an expert on your sitch, but could your H be worried about being left behind/not able to keep up with you? You've got a Masters, I'm assuming. Maybe he's been intimidated and worried over all this time and he's acting childish to get your attention. I'm going to guess that this isn't a brilliant observation and it's been hashed over already, but one never knows. On the other hand, he might just be an inconsiderate a$$ as someone said.
After all of this time, if you feel like writing a letter is the final effort, you're probably right. I would leave off the "I'm going to file" part. Unless your H is totally clueless, he should be able to read between the lines.
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