Yes, that's what I've been trying to say. I have to back off so that he will put in some effort. I did really well for a while there. I didn't contact him for a week and he called me. Then another week went by and I called him. Once I called it was easier to call the next day, and the day after that.
I do much better when I don't initiate contact.
So, I need to not call him unless he calls me.
In the meantime, for our Diner Reunion on Sunday, I'll be fun, happy and perky. That way, when he doesn't hear from me...hopefully that will be the image he'll keep with him.
